
Waxing can be intimidating and can also vary from salon to salon. I find it hard to find a good wax and as an esthetician I’m probably harder to please than anyone else. So here are my waxing tips:
- Most salons have done away with the pre-waxing cleansing. With salons trying to pump out as many services as possible the pre-wax treatment can be seen as too time consuming and not necessary for the outcome. However missing the pre-wax cleanse can cause breakouts, ingrown hairs and irritation, because hair is slippery from our body oils and the wax doesn’t grip it as effectively. I know estheticians have turned to baby powder to combat this problem, but you’re better to have clean skin going in. If you’re going during or after work, wash in the morning but skip the lotion on the areas you’re having waxed. Bring a travel pack of face wipes or baby wipes with you to remove deodorant right before you leave for your appointment.
- Help out your esthetician. Bruising can occur because the skin wasn’t stretched properly when the wax was ripped off. Bruising can also occur because the wax wasn’t pulled off parallel to the skin, but rather straight out. Wherever your being waxed, help out by pulling the skin taut in the opposite direction the wax is being pulled off. Don’t be afraid to ask if you can help and how, but I know I’ve often been told “don’t worry, just try to relax,” and then bruised.
- Trim your bikini line. If you don’t go bare down there, trim the hair you want to keep. This helps because the area will be more visible and you don’t risk those painful stray hairs from being pulled. I suggest picking up an electric beard-trimming razor with guards. This is much easier and faster than trimming with scissors and the guard ensures that the hair will be clipped evenly, looking the best. The other thing to remember about the bikini line is to be specific about what you want. The standard bikini wax is generally not enough for the average woman. Somewhere in between the standard (which isn’t standard) and the Brazilian lies the European wax. Most salons don’t offer it or call it that on their menu; you have to ask for it. You have to tell them you want the in-between and show them where you want hair removed.

- The oil or lotion they put on you after your wax is not necessarily the best after care. It works for the time between your wax for a couple hours until you get home, but you should invest in some good at-home after care. I suggest Tend Skin and a soothing face cream. (A face cream will tell you if it’s non-comedogenic, or won’t clog pores, a body lotion won’t). What I use: Pevonia Soothing Sensitive Skin Cream
. It reduces redness and sensitivity.
- Take preventative measures. Take Tylenol or ibuprophen 45 minutes before you go, this will help pain and swelling. Also, try not to wax 3 days before or after your period, you are most sensitive at these times.












